Megan (00:00)
when you try something new, you go from, “I totally know what I’m doing” to “what is even happening??”. That drop in confidence feels awful, especially when quilting is usually your comfort zone. So how do we fix that?

Megan (00:15)
Welcome to the Quilt Scouts podcast. I’m Megan, your quilt scout leader and fellow adventurous quilter. This is a cozy campfire chat for quilters who crave creativity, community, and a gentle nudge to try something new. Each week we’ll talk about quilting, and the small adventures that help us grow more confident one stitch at a time. I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s get into it.

Megan (00:41)
Today’s episode is for the quilter who keeps thinking, I really want to try that, but I’m not ready. Not because you don’t care, not because you’re lazy, not because something keeps stopping you and you can’t quite name it. So let’s name it. This one’s about why trying new things feels weirdly hard and how to get unstuck without turning it into a self-help project. Okay, quick warmup question before we dive in.

What’s one quilting thing you’ve been curious about but haven’t actually tried yet? It could be a technique, a style, a tool, whatever pops up first. You don’t have to commit, just notice it. And maybe laugh a little if it’s been sitting in your cart for six months. All right, let’s unpack why your brain keeps side-eyeing that idea in your cart. Here’s the thing, trying new stuff feels hard.

because your brain’s main job is to keep you safe, not creative. Your brain loves familiar, efficient, good-at-things you. New techniques bring mistakes, chaos, and beginner energy. And your brain’s like, “um… okay, no thank you. We’ve had enough drama.” So quick reminder, if trying something new feels weird, that’s not a character flaw. That’s just your brain trying to protect your ego. Cool. Thanks brain. Moving on.

Let’s talk about the real world reasons quilters get stuck. Number one, skill reset. You’re entering beginner mode. So when you try something new, you go from, “I totally know what I’m doing” to “what is even happening??”. That drop in confidence feels awful, especially when quilting is usually your comfort zone. So how do we fix that?

Well, make it smaller. One practice block.

one mini, one sample, and decide ahead of time that this is allowed to be bad. You’re not bad at quilting. You’re just a beginner again. So quick story. When I first tried curved piecing, I was convinced that my fabric hated me. Spoiler alert, it didn’t. I was just in beginner mode. Okay. So let’s get honest about another big reason we freeze up. The stakes start to feel way too high.

quilting costs time, fabric, money, emotions. So our brains turn everything into a test. Like if I mess this up, it means I’ve wasted my time or I’ve wasted my fabric. So let’s lower the stakes. Number one, use fabric you already own. Number two,

Keep yourself from investing too much time. So set a timer, start with 20 minutes or 30 minutes. Number three, Promise yourself that you don’t have to keep it. Number four, call it a test drive. It’s not a project. Okay? You’re not picking forever. You’re just collecting data. and while we’re talking about pressure, let’s hit the sneakiest one of all, tools.

Sometimes the problem isn’t fear, it’s just logistics. You watch a tutorial and suddenly you need three specialty rulers, a new foot and possibly a small mortgage. and then your curiosity suddenly turns into a shopping list. I’ve been there. But before you buy, ask yourself these three things. Can I fake it with what I’ve got? Can I borrow or improvise?

Can I try the idea without the perfect tool? Tools are helpful, but they’re not permission slips. All right, last one. And honestly, this is the one that sneaks up on most of us and that’s learning alone.

Learning solo makes every mistake feel personal. No one’s around to say, yep, that always looks weird at first. Or mine did that too. Or you’re fine, keep going. Sometimes you just need Kris Jenner to say, you’re doing amazing, sweetie. watching someone succeed actually boosts your belief that you can

before you’ve tried.

And that’s why sew along tutorials and progress photos help. You’re

confidence. So find a

progress.

Sew along with the video, you don’t need an expert. You just need company.

I’ve absolutely avoided techniques for years, not because I hated them, but

because I didn’t want to feel bad at something again. I told myself that’s not my style or I’ll get to it later. But really I was just avoiding discomfort.

Discomfort isn’t a stop sign. It’s proof that you are growing. Which brings me to the big mindset flip that changed everything. Challenge versus punishment. So giving ourselves a challenge means inviting curiosity,

learning and maybe laughing a little at the weird seams. Punishing ourselves means expecting perfection and putting pressure on ourselves.

sometimes we forget quilting is supposed to be a hobby, not a Hunger Games event. Remember that. It’s supposed to be fun.

Megan (05:45)
Alright, this next one is for my fellow professional procrastinators. And the, I just need to organize my fabric first crowd. I see you. So real talk, I don’t avoid quilting. I tend to avoid starting. The setup always feels bigger and more daunting than it is, kind of like the gym. Okay, it’s January 1st. This seems fitting.

Getting there is always the hardest part, but once you’re in, you’re fine.

You jump in, you start working, get into the flow, right?

So I want to invite you to start an arrival ritual. Just sit down, pull out your

set a 10 minute timer. You don’t have to finish your project. You just have to

Momentum tends to do the rest. So let’s zoom out for a sec. What’s the quilt scouts philosophy behind all of this? Trying new things doesn’t mean you’re

fearless, just means you’re brave enough to do it scared. And maybe laugh a little while you do it.

more discipline. You just need a cheer section. Curiosity over perfection. Exploration over mastery. Community over comparison. Okay, that’s the whole vibe. All right, let’s wrap this one up with a quick and dirty field guide.

Here is your unofficial quilt scouts checklist. Number one, name the resistance. What’s stopping you? Number two, lower the stakes. Spend less time, less money.

Number three, contain beginner mode. Start with something smaller, one block, one sample. Number four, reduce tool friction. Can you borrow something? Can you improvise with what you have? Number five, add a witness. Okay, this could be just texting a friend some progress photos or sewing along to a YouTube tutorial.

Number six, focus on starting, not finishing.

We’re just dipping our toe in the water, right?

Number seven, Reflect on the progress instead of judging your progress.

routine, you just need a kinder one. Start small, stay curious, that’s enough. Put that on a sticky note.

Okay, before we head out, one tiny favor. If this episode made you laugh, nod, or feel like you could try something new, hit follow so we can keep hanging out here every week.

And if you want company while you experiment, Quilt Scouts is always here when you’re ready.

Megan (08:14)
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